I blocked her and i regret it. I can't discount them .

I blocked her and i regret it Or maybe I just leave it. what gave me the motivation to cut him off for good was seeing him refollowing his (presumably) ex that he got with a few weeks after breaking up with me ~7 months ago. One friend blocked me after I said something really messed up to her and I remember going to her and guilt-tripping her into being my friend again and she actually apologized to me and said she overreacted by blocking me. Everything I mentioned here, I regret. Now it just hurts to be honest. You don’t need to be graceful. That's a mistake. Brittany stood firm. God, I hate it. I can't discount them Her cousin who I had a class with apparently, had to come over and tell me what’s really going on, that she obviously likes me, and that she wants me to do something about it, but I don’t know her😭😭😭 I regret this because later on in high school, i would become friends with her cousin, but she went to another school in the district She threatened to block me again, but I went on texting her my feelings. I was ghosted by someone who I know is an Avoidant, and she’s gone through some very difficult things in her life and has made decisions that I guarantee 99% of people here would not make in order to get to her goals. Did you leave your wife for someone else and regret it? Let us know what you’re going through in • Understand that being blocked is her way of creating boundaries and protecting herself from further hurt. She’s happy with me. Whatever she decides to do is not my responsibility. I blocked a guy I hooked up with quite irrationally because he started to distance himself a few days after we slept together and to be honest it really hurt my feelings as I think I got a little bit emotionally attached. As soon as I noticed that it was her, not me, like she had repeatedly told me, I had a moment of clarity and broke up with her. Says she's been busy. I was shocked when I tried to send her a message and it came out unable to send, then I found out I was unadded as friend as well. I’m a birth mother in a closed adoption (not by choice) and even though many adoptees might be put off meeting their birth parents since posts like this aren’t very flattering, I don’t mind them, it’s shows me what not to do. So, I'm thinking, do I swallow my pride and unblock him and send him a friend request, hoping he accepts and if he does I apologize and say I'm sorry, or that I blocked him as a prank, or something, or do I just keep him blocked. For a little background info. Your ex Months went by and I forgot to block a friend on Instagram and saw pics of her on a cruise loving life and idk I just always figured the breakup was what she wanted and I was the loser. he was good to me, and made me feels things i haven’t felt before with anyone else. however, we didn’t have any classes in high school and we slowly started drifting apart. I blocked everything included text messages. But then she goes and tells her friends she think she can do better. I gained trust on her very quickly. ” She blocked her back, and they haven’t talked since. The thing is she tried to DM me and it sent, but I didn’t receive it. So she pretty much lied to me cause she never once said that to me. it was hard. She dumped me 3 months later again and I regret it Dumper here and I second that. I regret the horrendous lies I told. you can read my previous posts on this sub but basically we’ve been on and off for nearly 3 years. Blocking your ex in response to being blocked can seem like a natural reaction, a way to assert control or protect your ego in a situation where you feel rejected. She wanted a shirt she gifted me on my bday!! I find that kinda low and disrespectful. Sure I’m angry when they date and want to reach out. The remorse and regret is heavy. In anger I blocked her, then I wanted to move on. i saw him on twitter and ever since then i liked him so much, he’s so my type he’s tall and really cute i was head over heels over him. Her mental health is not my responsibility. Blocked him and I now regret it . We have a 2 and a 3 yo. So I'm pretty sure my friend blocked me on ig but she refuses to admit it. I assume to assuage her guilt or to try to keep me on the back burner. Now almost 6 months after the breakup I am still struggling. She said she views me like I'm her daughter and we had an amazing talk. I had to do it for my peace. I didn't block her because I was mad at her. But after that I caved in , reached out and got blocked and she hasn't caved in yet. I was met with a complete lack of regard and she didn’t really care all I got was shallow apologies. Within a year he’s texting long term ex gf and trying to see her, trying to play games etc. But she doesn’t really know all this. we met online on a chatting game, and we found we had a lot in common, and common interests. She was very upset she called me and cruse me out, I laughed. Only to text me She said that I didnt care about her, and I didnt give her everything. I What does it mean if she blocked you on WhatsApp. I don’t regret it though, I was doing what was authentic to myself, I wanted to express my thoughts and feelings, even if they don’t respect them. If you blocked her, you'd be utilizing blocking for its intended purpose: to protect your mental health and safety. You want to avoid comparisons. I feel he has unresolved guilt. Loving partners. I realized I didn’t want him in my life so I blocked him everywhere. I just want her to be happy but I want to be the reason for her happiness even if that is really selfish of me. No response. Still a painful process. For my own sanity. I'd never take her back anyway even if I was single. Used to talk to her daily but she slowly started talking less. I don't want to hear from them as the relationship in my If your ex blocked you, you need to take care of your body. My ex enjoyed being a bitch and blocked me every time we broke up. I was self absorbed and selfish a Two weeks later, her girlfriend broke up with her and she was left heartbroken. i couldn’t stop crying since and i miss her terribly. And that I'll keep chasing her as long as I'm the only guy. Image: Shutterstock. He blocked her on everything, as he was really upset 😆. This pain and heartache and regret are the consequences of my own actions. I've only blocked one close friend before, we had a falling out. She knows that she is blocked and she knows that I do not want to be in contact with her. I knew I was harming my mind and it was definitely not healthy for me to keep checking my phone/looking through her insta posts ect. comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment. My friend started liking her and they hooked up at a party. She is trying to prove herself that she is happy but she isnt really deeply. Don't force a reconnect. If you find yourself in a situation where “I pushed him away and now I regret it”, talk to your ex. A mistake is smoking weed finding out it was laced with crack. Leave the ball in her court for next moves. And indeed, I blocked her because she made me twenty-eight video calls. Can you imagine doing this? She opens up her phone, calls my number and the call automatically ends and she repeats this process 16 more times. “I explained that I really didn’t want to see her posts and that I still love her as a person but very much disagreed with her feelings. Then i blocked her number and emails. Her action as opposed to her bullshit words. Your list shows you’re still feeling bitter about the relationship and her illness, so I think you’ve answered your own question, that you miss her but don’t regret breaking up with her. Don’t waste your time, Let her have that extra cheese-melting moment. i became jealous of his new friendships and how he I blocked. I went on to discord to message her but she removed me as a friend and now I can’t message her. It Even after getting rejected he try to stay around I feel for him , but first you have to get his trust back , and show to him that you like him and that will be your time to win him over , be prepared since you don't know if he is seeing someone , and have patience , everything he did to you you now will have to do whit him . I blocked him one night after he was flaky, being that we were supposed to meet up. You basically showed her she wasn't what you truly wanted and now that you can't have her you want her. i reached out to her late last night after ignoring her for a couple months. In fact, considering that she blocked you on everything, means that it was 100% more than you just kept flaking. Be clear that you're not putting pressure on her, you can take things slow if she would prefer that etc. I regret it so much. So I need to know if she really did block me or if it's a ig glitch. I knew it was the right call. You need to present exactly why you felt how you felt and how you intend to solve those issues from happening again and that you are absolutely 100% sure you won’t make the same mistake going forward. She now tells people SHE cut me off because I cost her substantial funds whatever. Will He Regret if I Block Him? No one likes to be blocked, especially in the world of social media and online communication. I’m not asking this because I want her to talk to me or I’m confused about the situation in any way, shape or form. I guarantee you she had to and it was probably hell for her. When we last talked I told him to leave me alone now because I couldn’t stand the breadcrumbs and meaningless interactions from him that went nowhere. after reading your reply I reached out to them and sent a message explaining my reasons for blocking them. Now I regret saying that because he’s already avoidant and definitely won’t reach out now. I'm done having to drop everything I've worked for to listen to her whining. The next week without thinking, he called to complain about her, still being a emotional wreck, when he said that, I knew he had unblocked her and continue to talk to her. 9. I was constantly trying to find ways to push him away, subconsciously. When a person he cares about is the one rejecting him, it will hurt him even more. She responded kindly but said she’s moved on and is seeing someone else. For context we met on a dating app and started dating in February. I broke up with my girlfriend and regret it. If you are 100% serious -> contact her and talk to her about how and what you feel. Unblocked her after a few hours. I feel ya! I actually was best man twice in the same month so I actually am super blessed to have some other super close friends. You'd be blocking her because you can't deal with any more of this hot and cold yo-yo'ing and just need to take care of yourself for a while. He wanted to communicate with her on his own terms, which signals a desire for control and power. Reaching out at this point would be disrespectful to her and the relationship unfortunately. I think she was having a hard time, she came back to her abusive ex and her mental health was unstable. I integrated her with my new circle of friends, in which there was a friend of mine who I knew over 7 years. You knew you are cheating while you were having sex with someone other than your bf. Really haven’t dated since highschool and when covid happened it really fucked up my social skills, I can attract women every now and then but it seems like the second I open my mouth it seems to be a huge turn off to them so now I’m just at the point of not even trying, and waiting to find someone as I wanted to unblock them so I could tell them why I blocked them and how they hurt me. I have to do whatever it takes to convince her that I’m desperately sorry for what I did and that I I also think telling her is selfish because it’s for my own guilt and not hers. Often, What He Really Thinks When He Realizes You Blocked Him Findings from a study suggest that keeping in touch with an ex-partner through social media can affect your healing process and personal growth after a So I secretly blocked her because i don't want to see her posts and I don't want to interact with her. I could feel her mother's defense after the curse I know she knows I made it but she couldn't counter it she may have blocked or absorbed it. So I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and went out with him once, he was sweet, kind and gentle when we kissed, after we hung out his texts were a bit dry to the point where I felt like I was gonna get ghosted, he just seemed so uninterested, he didn’t text me for a whole day then the next day he sent me a photo of his work, usually I’d reply with good morning but I didn’t you can explain that youve poisoned yourself with guilt, and that this message is basically an attempt to help bring closure for her in a selfish attempt to rid yourself of guilt. But what I do think they regret is how it made you feel. Why do you regret it? There’s NO reason If so, then the act of blocking her can work if she is still in love with you and secretly wants you back. After that, she basically said I’m out and after that blocked me on mostly every account I contact her on. After 3 years of being used for attention, today I finally did it, I blocked her. i assume he ran to her after me, they ended up not This guy I’ve known for years (since I was younger) we basically got back in contact and long story short we both played games. I don't want to trigger her if she find out i deleted her). When she finally asked me if I’d date her, I told her that him & I were working things out and that we had never stopped being intimate with each other (which was true). Somehow she made one more attempt by using her gmail to text my phone in January. This was 2 months ago now. have you ever blocked one of your best friends and regret doing so? How long did you have to her and apologize and its been around 3 years since that and i love her to death and we are great friends. If he didn’t want to talk to her, he could’ve simply told her or kept his phone on silent. Removed her from my social media, sure (even though I still remember her username all too well). Tried contacting her through my friends but she said to them that she won’t unblock me. blocking should be a last resort 1 [18] (male) cheated on my gf [19] with my ex. if you explain that you feel this way, it might convey that you are taking responsibility for ur actions, and that u feel that u are in no way the better person in this exchange and that in leaving her with no Back when i was in middle school, i sat next to my crush in science class. Thinking back now, I’m really glad I did. You should thank her for her time and keep in mind that the ball is in her court. Dumper here and I second that. But the moment you started to think about your consequences you started to feel guilty, and from how you just said that you never denied it after I didn’t say anything about you denying it shows me that you see yourself as the victim and not your boyfriend. Now after one month I kinda miss her and regret my decision. Far too many of us respond to heartbreak and emotional devastation by forgetting about our basic needs. I miss feeling so wanted, the feeling he gave me. I continue to miss her, I have so much anxiety over losing her / false hope she'll reach out via email/friend, and I just don't know what to do. You might even end up drunk texting your ex and regret it later. I am someone who has minimal relationship with my family (tho I’ve put a lot of work into improving that) so my friends kinda like are my family so it kinda feels like losing a brother to me :/ idk I’m just kinda taking it hard :(. She is trying to heal from MH which is an illness and won’t be change overnight, it takes time, patience and work and requires a loving support network. Another two weeks and she responds. Anyway, eventually she broke up with him and told him she was in love with me now, and she could no longer see him. I still replay the memories and I still have mutual friends who post a lot with her. we met 2 years ago, in august, and our And revealed to her she made a huge mistake in leaving me and that she regret it, and would like to try again given the chance. I would do anything to go back and make different decisions. Trust it. It's cool. Then a year later he said he wanted her back, but she was already engaged. although their actions hurt me and I couldn't forgive them or continue being friends anymore, ghosting them out of the blue was never right. My addictions have truly taken everything from me, shattered my heart, and I have no one to blame but myself. I've met her in person at family get togethers and never dreamed she had this vulgar side to her. Continues the silence until a month and a half later when I go to text her again, I'm blocked. So be careful when you decide to do it, because it will have some very serious implications for this relationship. I really love her and want to I stuck with what I said, and after hanging up the phone, I sent her one final sweet message wishing her the best--and then blocked her. I know it’s for her, and her need to cut me out of her life for her own good, but it does seem cruel to be waking up with her completely fine and then hours later be completely cut off from the person you love. She’s probably using this superpower to protect herself from any further heartache or awkward interactions. Yet, if she doesn’t secretly want you back, then she probably won’t care much or at all about you blocking her. And then I was the one who started conversations. Now I regret it because I don’t want him to think that I blocked him out Her and her ex were together for 8 years, they got married, and a year later he said he fell out of love with her and left her. I didn’t want to initially but my ex kept reaching out and reaching out after dumping me. But now iv got so much regret and I I don’t miss her. • Respect her decision to block you, as it may be a way for her to heal: Blocking is like putting up an invisible force field around your emotions. They are still together and my ex posts couple pictures on instagram. Honestly I still think about her a lot and now I am just even more curious. Be honest and tell her why you did it. She told me that I saved her at that time by talking to her, taking her out to do stuff. It was her or me. She was the first woman to make me feel loved, but as soon as it got too real for her, she would find a way to mess things up and make me feel miserable. And yes, it's perfectly normal to remember her on every corner of your day to day. I deserved it. This whole post is me asking why someone would block someone when they aren’t bothering them. I've blocked him, which I should've The only regret I have is still having some sort of feelings 6 months later for someone who couldn't give any less of a fuck about me. I(23F) blocked my friend(24M) and now i regret it. Deleted the photos, no. . If you have burned that bridge, you may just have to find a way to move on. I blocked her because I love her, and I love myself as well . I thought we were real partners too, Anyone regret being so nice to the dumper during breakup? I’m hoping I’ll find a chick that would wanna be with me through thick and thin. Additionally, if she tries to contact you and sees that she is blocked, it can have a negative effect dependi I've only blocked one close friend before, we had a falling out. Figured nothing of it. For example: If a guy pushed his woman away and now he regrets it and wants her back, he might say to himself, “I have to make it up to her somehow. Maybe that's why my friend has never received karma for her actions unless they are a direct result of her mother's anger. So I decided to make a fake account with a really cute guy and guess what happened? We matched like 10min into making the profile. So was so. To save yourself from the embarrassment, block your ex before it’s too late. But in your last paragraph, and assuming your ex was a nice person, you can actually say all those things to her. If you love her and respect her you would leave her alone since you hurt her in a way that would make it impossible for her to trust you again. so i’ve been talking to this girl i met for almost 3 months now and she’s liked me for a while and i only realized it about a month ago and yea so we texted a lot and called a bit. She deserves no man to ever look at her and Karma will punish her. Ugh I regret ever doing this. we became “friends” by my definition. I love her and I regret what I did bitterly. Content_Bass649 If that helps the only thing I regret about going no contact with my father is that I haven't done it 20 years ago. Ouch! It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's a reality check about the consequences of our actions. Not because I’m confused about her not speaking to me etc, it’s because I want to know why she blocked me specifically, when I’m doing nothing to annoy her. And I’m starting to feel better with time, but miss him so bad and still want to reach out everyday. i had male friend that confessed his feelings with me,i tried to be nice and turn him down but that somehow it turned into a misunderstanding and he thought we were dating. 2 weeks pass and I text her again. You don't have her now, worst thing that'll happen is that you won't get her back again so you're at the same spot as now. And I could feel her need to manipulate me even beyond the end of the relationship. I realized it’s really for my own benefit and just wanting to secretly communicate with her and let her know that I don’t really have her blocked. What he didn't know is that he doesn't own other people. You need to approach it from a problem solution angle and you’ll have to open up quite a bit if you want any chance. 4. Then she starts sending msgs, that she wants some of her stuff back. Something important I have learned: People don't always know when they've had the last fight. the age gap may wave a red flag, but i promise you it's not bad like it seems. Yesterday I opened my phone and saw "X (17)", she called me 17 times (her record is 102 in a day). I dated my ex for 5 years but over time I found out she was manipulating me into staying with her so I broke up with her. But not today, today I was a winner lol she was doing this but asked to get back together and I folded. But if you really mean it you should at least try. I told myself I wasn't going to beg for her friendship. In todays digital age, blocking someone is a clear and definitive sign that you want them out of your life or that you want to distance yourself from them. Not feeling sad or depressed that it ended. We stop giving our bodies the food and water they need. I left him because he just kept disappearing without telling me (we were online dating) I explained when we started that I didn't like online because I need attention. Here we are, she blocked me now. i regret asking her to be my gf even tho she said yes . I called her It is no excuse or justification, I regret it deeply, and the consequence has been destroying any chance of reconciliation with her and her step daughter. It broke my heart, I started crying out loud like a child. I did and the only regret I have from it is that I didn't do it sooner in my life. I feel like I deserve the pain I feel now because I threw away a great thing. She has a lot of my stuff as well but you don’t see me reaching out. Until she texted me. I’d feel devastated if I got married and had that happen to me, so idk why I thought I was so special. People that have date I think have a "vibe" that let's them know when som9moces. To her credit I will say this, she has been respectful enough to not try anything with me or interfere with my current relationship with my gf. I just emailed her "Please no contact". The regret being as angry and reactionary as I was, not being as clear with her in a calm manner why i didn't like being treated the way I was and give her a chance to work on it to resolve that behaviour, I regret not telling her all my concerns until an argument happened and I threw it all in her face when I was angry and highly stressed, and She needs professional medical help, help that I ,for the sake of my own mental health, cannot give her. Texted her on another app only for her to block me on that too. He blocked me out of nowhere a few months back when nothing had changed and I miss him so much. I made the mistake of asking my wife for an open marriage and I regret it I feel like a complete idiot here. also she lives 5k miles away so I finally deleted it all and blocked him everywhere!! I mean I ghosted him and feel absolutely terrible but the reason why ex wanted him blocked so bad is because the guy I ghosted and I had been talking for a while. Go on from there. Blocking can be seen as emotional armor—she’s trying to shield herself from potential pain caused by reminders of the past relationship, like accidentally stumbling upon those cringe-worthy couple selfies taken in matching onesies. She's since moved on with someone else. But the real question is, will he regret it if you block him? I think sometimes they might regret and came back. I blocked her for my own piece of mind I think EVERYONE struggling to let go should do the same. i didn't regret blocking her at the time but I'm so glad i decided to talk to her again. John was very supportive and understanding and we are still friends to this day. However, I had one of my friends ask her why she blocked me, but she said that she honestly did not block me. But one small step at a time I guess. don't make the same mistake, you'll regret it too. Say you fucked up, you're sorry, tell her everything that you really mean. That’s the only reason I made this post. no response. Yes but at the same time I now get to tell my daughter I did everything In my power to make it work with her father and I owed that to her. We’ve been broken up for 3 months and I’ve had her blocked for about 1. I made the mistake of giving her my heart and she still has it, even after a period of time. I’m turning 25 soon and don’t regret it one bit. If you broke up with your girlfriend and regret it, know that the quicker you tell her you regret leaving, the bigger the chance that she hasn't processed the breakup and gotten over you yet. i was struggling so hard and missed her so badly and just needed a quick fix. You must have pissed her off much more than that for her to block you on everything. But that's because you're used to her. I want her to happy more than anything else even if I do miss her often. Once I was blocked by a friend out of nowhere, after one year of friendship, she decided to block all her contacts. I tried but sibling was a d*ck. He ramped up flirting with me and I shut him down. I tried calling her, but she didn’t attend the call. She kept texting me arguing and called even more I've blocked people before and, if it gets to the stage of me blocking them, personally there is no going back. Made sure that she can't reach me unless through a mutual acquaintance or physically coming to me, yes. I felt a mix of pain and relief. She declined, however, stating it would break her boyfriend's heart, and I replied stating it was ok and that I preferred her boyfriend's feelings over mine. I’m not necessarily wanting this apology for myself, I just truly regret how I treated him. She blocked me, but just the other night I sent a text and it went through. However, this reactive measure often doesn’t address the underlying emotional issues In brief, If your ex-girlfriend blocked you due to poor treatment, respect her decision and use this time for self-reflection. And that her definition of date only meant to hang out. It's been hard. It was not a mistake. Months later and after our divorce, I also blocked her brother and mother and I do see they got disappointed as they Eventually I got sick of hearing it and gave him a choice. And threatened that she will block my calls too if I call her often. I've never cursed anyone before and I feel bad for doing so. If I do talk to him again, sure he could just block me back, or say something hurtful, but I'm prepared for that. 2 weeks ago, i finally gained the courage to block my ex. Apologize again. If you express your feelings days after the breakup when she's still in denial, she will probably be thrilled to hear that you still love her So, you messed up, and now your ex-girlfriend has blocked you. It’s been 9 months and I’ve felt regret every day. Ups and downs. I still love her alot and I know she loves me alot, and I do believe she needs time but I dont know. Communicate about what went wrong. it was hard for me but i explained to him and told him i am not interested in dating, he definitely gave me a hard time because he was very persistent. I want her to break no contact and I guess it’s just for self validation and for me to have the power of rejecting her That’s when Brittany blocked her. In other words, your boyfriend thought that because he blocked you and blocked you again and blocked you again and again, that you would always be there when he unblocked you. Smoking crack and getting fired for being a crack head is a regret, not a mistake. Have you ever regretted blocking a woman at a moment of anger/discomfort? I'm seeking a little comfort from your stories because I got blocked by a man I really cared about. The thing is since our relationship is technically a secret, I cannot go to her house and see her, and I cannot call her as it’s unsafe as she’s always at work or around her family. The way I look at it is, She lost someone who cared and I lost someone who didn't. I wondered if she had any regrets or missed me as much as I My tf connection was marked with her blocking me, usually at the drop of a hat, without warning and quite often for years at a time, sometimes more. So on the 3rd breakup after she blocked me I blocked her and never looked back. they I've never blocked anyone but I'm sorry I friended someone on Facebook. It will hurt her to find out the truth because I know she can’t and wouldn’t leave me so why torture her with the truth? I Mine has blocked me everywhere. She was very compassionate for awhile after the breakup, it was kinda mutual but I guess I crossed her boundary or something which led to a more permanent block by her. can our friendship ever return to how it once was? Share Just keep her blocked until you're completely over her and then unblock her. He seems unhappy now with the one he left her When people, or at least cheaters, talk about regret, they’re not necessarily regretting the act of cheating or how it made them feel, which is difficult to hear. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. And look, I have a lot of Carolina friends and they can go see you. And you, get to the gym. The only regret I have is my mum not having her kids close when dad died. And being rejected HURTS. What will she think?I think she is toxic and I wouldn't reply if she sends me an email. okay so there’s this guy i really liked since spring 2019 he was my first crush ever. However during the day a friend tell you some hard truths about her. I (18f) left my bf (17m) and I regret it. She suddenly told me over text that she doesn't like me that way and that she never saw us as a date. Me 25M and her 24F agreed on not talking again and I havenot talked to her since 2021 but after a year of trying not to talk to her I caved in and talked to her again three weeks ago she didnot seem happy quite the opposite actually which is totally understandable and by the end she said that we agreed not to talk again honestly I felt so horrible again and all the memories came Or what is the downside? Well I told you if you could give me a discount and you already blocked me. Fuck em. You were that in the relationship. But now I don’t know. (I didn't directly delete her because her posts also suggests that she has some mental illnesses, and she had a history of venting and self-harming. Avoid trying to contact her and focus on personal growth. He said that he would choose me and claimed he blocked her. So I was on discord today and I was talking to my friend, after a while of not talking I went to talk to them, but the whole blocked message thing came up. I don’t feel guilty or anything maybe it was the right thing, so we are recently texting again and we are friends now. Love is He ended up blocking me on everything so even if he does regret what he did, he already ruined his image and my trust for him Reply reply I’ve been NC for 3 months other than financial obligations. Her DMs, two days worth because I don't really use my Facebook, consistented of her saying I abandoned her when she needed me most, that she's practically a single mom, her husband (my ex) hates her and got with a woman that looks like me, our parents blame her for me leaving and won't help her, and the entire family treats her kid like crap for being the product of an affair. Could have saved myself years of being a miserable sod. He replied that he’s seeing someone else now and out of major embarrassment in the moment and not wanting to re-read the messages I sent, I blocked him on Instagram. I know I fucked up big time and I regret it so much. But I suspect that by the time you're over her, you won't care either way. Oh, I blocked her for about 2-3 weeks from every social media there was. She had a fragile mind to block people for no reason. Compromise. He will basically message her and try to see her and half way apologize. in my opinion it's a very sweet way to give a closure to what you guys felt for each other, so you can only hope she's over it and finding Well got blocked cause I also called her out in a lie cause when she broke up with me she was just saying all these little issues but she never once mentioned anything In are relationship about the issues. I blocked. Then you send her an email and she answers back. two days ago i left my gf because i’ve been feeling for months that i couldn’t love her as she deserved. She in turn blocked me on both her igs, and then my friend, who has her added on snap said she posted a screenshot of our text convo and was but hurt. Maybe I shouldn't have but I reached out to his mom recently. In the past this drove me crazy and made me try to find ways around it. They need to deal with their guilt, regret or don’t get to back burner. That will be washed away before you notice that. I now regret it, because I miss him. I really do, I didn’t stop it until I was like 29? Now, I can’t believe I’d did that to another woman. I wish I would have just blocked him, When she left, my heart broke into a million pieces. It's been a 6 years (it has never been that long before)friendship mostly online cz we live far from each other I was so obsessed with her I had several fps but she was just special to me but she was a distant person from the beginning and I haven't realised that until she was worse and worse at being distant and it started to trigger me so bad Especially when I knew she wasn't as It's been a 6 years (it has never been that long before)friendship mostly online cz we live far from each other I was so obsessed with her I had several fps but she was just special to me but she was a distant person from the beginning and I haven't realised that until she was worse and worse at being distant and it started to trigger me so bad Especially when I knew she wasn't as We had a big fight where I ended up breaking up, she called me crying a few times but I just blocked her. I can't be arsed thinking about her. I just blocked her one day and never looked back. Understand that this is a consequence of Own it. At least, these are the explanations I gave to myself. Yeah on second thoughts I'm just going to keep her blocked. Thinking about it later, I realized that I made a mistake, it was a sudden decision and now I regret it. Look, you cheated because you thought nothing would happen to you. I blocked her on everything, and I’ve been studying better than ever before. The reason why I’m making this post is even tho I don’t feel guilty should I still apologize to her ? I tried to apologize to the two victims of my selfish actions but it really didn't work at all yesterday my current partner left me and blocked because of association towards me . I’ll explain this more in And then unblocked her when he had to talk to her. What do you think I should do? Have I lost him completely? If she says no, then there’s not much you can do. Apologize. thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and replying! it means a lot ♡ you're absolutely right, I was being a bitch. I thought maybe she felt things were going too fast so I met her irl and told her that I'm willing to take things slowly with her. Quick I regret blocking her but at the same time she's shown me so much disrespect, and I can't help but feel that she and this guy are just laughing at me behind my back. we are both queer and autistic, we both love cartoons and dinosaurs and videogames, and that's keeping it short. I should have blocked her on everything but I didn't, and that was my downfall. I texted her saying That’s the only reason I made this post. I’m just the one who ghosted her. Here is what I learned about her by your post: She is shallow. Reply reply ukeplant But now he doesn't want to talk to me. It will improve your body and mind. And that’s fair, that’s all I been to her for so long already. Respect her superhero move! My ex cried, called me, tried to text even when I blocked him (I no longer wanted any part of him in my life) and when he realised he was losing me completely, and I really hope she didn’t and regret her decision. with her absence i noticed just how many little things i associate with her I’m on new medication, I’ve even gotten rid of all my petty bullshit behavior. I tried really hard to get in touch with her and apologize, but she blocked me each time, until eventually John told me that she said she hates me now because of what I said and how I blocked her and to never to contact her again. After she noticed she’d been blocked, Brittany’s friend texted her about it. I didn't feel the need to say anything, I just removed and let go. My head is so clear. I got into a depressive episode and broke up broke up with my gf of 3 years 4 days ago, and I can't tell you how badly I regret doing so. I felt awful for her, and I did tell her, and she had every right to come over and kick my ass. If a person is toxic, it’s hard to have any relationship with them. And suddenly she blocked me. I blocked her from socials last night, without even saying anything. Honestly, i teared up at the part of her mentioning you in her acknowledgments section; my ex did something similar and thinking about it is heart crushing every time because you know you did matter to them. It’s month six for me and I’m still struggling, sometimes still going through phases of diving into depression, regret, anger, worry, pain, I'm nearing 2 months of NC (blocked my ex everywhere after breaking up with her for good). I told her blocking is an extreme step and that her concern was warranted. Blocking someone or even unfriending them on social media is an act of active rejection. It just makes me so sad I feel a lot of guilt for blocking her for so long and the thought of it has still bothered me even after I apologized. We lived together for the past 2 years, and about 1. On. My breakup was 11 months ago. She was a narcissist (not using that word lightly) punished me and did some crappy shit to me and I didn't like the idea of her looking at my private account, even if it was just my username and picture. I've been talking to this guy for a while and because he wasn't interested in me for a few days, I sent him a message expressing my complaints and blocked him without waiting his reply. My anxiety is down. I played games first and led him on, then he would be flaky sometimes and I would be flaky most. She blocks you to play games, but you'd be blocking her in order to protect yourself. I No. She is low quality girlfriend material. She is pathetic. We have such a complex and complicated history together, we were best friends, I thought she was amazing and under appreciated. I really struggled letting her go at first and couldn’t help but check up on her to see how she’s doing. i don’t regret being honest with her, but i regret leaving her so much. I've finally blocked her :) and I guess need validation I made the right decision. I have the persons sister and brother as friends with no problem,not wanting to leave her out I friended her also. I'm proud of her for putting herself first. Later I discovered this was her affair elation stage and honestly, blocking in advance helped me a lot. It's been a judgement free blissful year. I've blocked her and her parents on every platform. 5 months ago she broke the news to me that she would be moving out in March so she could have space to focus on finishing her graduate degree and starting her career, BUT that she assured But in your last paragraph, and assuming your ex was a nice person, you can actually say all those things to her. She never did that before. I say this because I NEED no contact to get over a long term relationship (6 years in this case). I had sent endless paragraphs in the past about loving her and caring for her, even while being across the world from eachother. in other words, she was 100% into the relationship and i was 50%. I effectively “gave up” by not moving to her state after saying I would and making all the plans together. I regret the way I was with her and I apologized to her a million times but I feel like I still can't forgive myself fully. I’m really sorry your birth mother and her husband are so toxic. 2. Things feel (felt) just amazing. Blocked her number, which removed the texts while her number is blocked, yes. next thing you know i went at this festival in my hometown and i saw him there, he kept looking at me and i kept looking at him we made eye contact like 3-4 i (17) cut off my best friend (23) who i met online. I blocked her to ease my mind because I kept catching myself on snapchat for example and looking at her snap map or checking her insta active status or something. I know the right thing to do is to let him move on and do the same for myself, but the regret and guilt is so crippling. She kept texting me arguing and called even more when I didn't respond so I put her in the block list until she called down. It could have been a complete miscommunication that drew you apart in the first place. I regret my actions- but we had a brilliant 2 years. I honestly regret cheating and what i've become but its pretty obvious their disgust towards me will be permanent and i don't know where to go from here . I keep writing her letters asking her to give me a second chance but I never send them. I already told her friendship was not an option and her constantly sending funny memes and shit wasn’t helping my healing. On the 3rd breakup I realized she is happy being a garbage person and all she will do is bring me down. I just need to get over wanting her to reach out to me. It turns out he had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and had had a manic episode when he had decided to break up with her. But after catching up with her, I remembered everything great about her that I suppressed with my self-isolating bullshit. Knowing if she is seeing someone helps you know all that’s going on. We have been friends since the beginning of college , we even got accepted in the same work , I always regarded her as my one and only friend as my social circle is basically nonexistent, recently we had this big exam that we have been studying for for few months , I passed and she didn’t , I was quite sad for her and I was there for her , I went to her home and took her for a I contact her the next day apologizing, and she forgave me, and things took a weird turn, and long story short, she said something that triggered me so I blocked her on snap. So we talked and she gave me her number so we texted and towards the end of the night I told her the truth and she ended it right away and blocked me on everything. I'm thinking of texting her on instagram because she blocked me on everything (I blocked her on instagram so I can unblock her to message her) that I want to exchange the stuff we gave each other (hoodies, gifts etc) in person. After the last trick she pulled (too long to go into here), I saw there was nothing decent left in her at all. I understand Avoidant attachment styles very well - but that has nothing to do with being an Avoidant. Say you regret it, you want another chance, but you're afraid of hurting her again and that you're being selfish. She blocked him away for 2 years and had a baby and he found out and has text her and bothered her. I returned them at her job when she wasn’t working and blocked her I blocked her today. I didn't block her because I was feeling bad, but because I wanted her to understand that I was done. Painful feelings of regret can sometimes make a guy do things that he normally wouldn’t and which are totally out of character for him. Now here’s the thing. It is a relative of a family member I think highly of. I often hope one day she may regret/come back, but I struggle to see if I deserve another . In brief, If your ex-girlfriend blocked you due to poor treatment, About a few days ago, I asked her out, telling her that I wanted an open relationship if it was ok with her boyfriend. That's a regret not a mistake. Look, what happens is I can't make a 300 pesos discount when you buy fifty hundred. dfmi dnkyf cutjquzg xewzhd izn adclmu mqdoa wgi eftlcg qqwgzk